Superficial | Distracted Listening.
Self Referential | Listening as an element of your own story (you have become the protagonist) // listening to respond.
“Fix it” | Didactic, problem solving based listening. A cognitive exercise that is not heartfelt or connected. Personal desires for validation.
Engaged | Deep and total listening. Supportive, heartfelt and honest.
source Gregory Kramer “Insight Dialogue”